A slave's little instruction book

A slave's little instruction book Well here it is something straight and to the point to help submissives learn and grow. No long posts here just little tidbits of advice to impress and show off for your master.


This was originaly a training tool I made and after almost loosing it to a crash I decided to share the whole thing here. Hopefully this will grow larger and broader than my own mind. I have currently 115 ideas.

I am not taking any credit for 99% of what is here. I only wish to share what I have found and come up with.
If you think I missed something submit it. If you have anything to add to the list submit it. I have been working on this for over a year and it only took me a couple days to get this far.

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a-london-gent:

Dear tumblr,
Please stop losing my messages in cyberspace. It’s really fucking annoying.
Thanks.

"So, I want to surprise my guy. I want to learn how to deep throat, so I want to get rid of my pesky gag reflex. I have a toy that I practice on, but it doesn't seem to be getting better. Honestly, I'm just terrified to try and then throw up. I get embarrassed rather easily. To speak bluntly, I want him to be able to fuck my face or hold my face down whenever he wants."

Asked by Anonymous

her-master:

Hmmm… well… problems were made to be solved, and I can tell you how to solve this one. First, you two communicate. You tell him what you want and that you are shy and get embarrassed (which he already knows and probably adores, btw), but that you want to learn to do this. Then, the best plan is probably he puts you on your back with your head hanging off the bed, tilted back… he stands over you and puts his hand on your throat… looks in your eyes and tells you that you are going to be a very good little girl… he asks if you want to suck Daddy’s big cock… when you close your eyes he tells you to spread your legs and then he smacks the inside of your thigh really hard… holding you down by the throat so you can’t move… then he says something like “I didn’t tell you to close your eyes, slut. Now tell me… ask me… ask me to let you suck this big cock…” the whole time it’s bouncing right there inches from your face… you can feel the heat of it on your skin… maybe he drips precum and you lick your lips to taste it, but that earns you another smack on your pussy with your legs spread now… and then he pulls back… the muscles in his flank rippling as he slowly, oh so slowly, pushes it into your mouth… finding your resistance… playing with it… teasing it… a little at a time… and you relax… improbably, in this hopelessly compromised situation with his hand locked around your throat… geometry working for you as your throat is now aligned… your body automatically relaxes as you feel hi begin to slip fully into your throat and you know that he has taken you in a way you have never given before, that he has violated and owns even this part of your body… and then he slowly starts moving… you struggle for air at times… and wonder what it will be as he works to his orgasm…. powerfully fucking in and out of your mouth… and you know when he cums he will bury it fully down your throat and it won’t be a question of whether you swallow… you will truly have no choice, will you?

I’m sorry, I think I was answering a question, wasn’t I?

masterofhisqueen:

-Master

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masterofhisqueen:

-Master

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arkhamsmaddness:

I would suggest seeing if he can perhaps see the following on the different sorts of spankings…many people are not aware of the difference sorts of spankings and reasons for them. Communication is truly the key.

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black-sapiosexual:

Whichever one you are that day, you’re still his.

ddlg-playground:

submissivefeminist:
Wax Play Tips
Before beginning wax play, be sure all parties agree on a safeword.
Most candles burn from 120-140 degrees Fahrenheit. Keeping the candle at a distance from the receiver’s body will help cool the wax before it touches them.
Harder, more expensive, colored, and scented candles burn at higher temperatures.
Low temperature candles are available specifically for wax play.
Be mindful of any allergies. Soy candles are common, and soy is an allergen to some. Also, the scents and colors in some candles can irritate some people. For best results, use a white, unscented Paraffin candle.
Read up on burn safety before playing.
Supplies
Mineral oil/baby oil: This makes clean-up a lot easier if you rub it on the receiver before dripping wax onto them.
Cool, damp washcloth: If the wax burns too much, a cool cloth can sooth the burn quickly and calm the bottom party.
Small bucket of water: With any fire play, it’s really best to have a way to put out any accidental fires. While unlikely, it doesn’t hurt to be safe. 
Hard surface: A lot of people do wax play on their beds, but be sure to have a table or hard, flat surface nearby to put the candle down in the case where the bottom party needs emergency assistance.
Cheap sheet or tarp: Depending on the level of play, it might be a good idea to put something down under the receiver before dripping wax all over your nice sheets or carpet, etc.
I hope this helps anyone looking into wax play. Stay safe and have fun!
xx SF

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ddlg-playground:

submissivefeminist:

Wax Play Tips

Before beginning wax play, be sure all parties agree on a safeword.

Most candles burn from 120-140 degrees Fahrenheit. Keeping the candle at a distance from the receiver’s body will help cool the wax before it touches them.

Harder, more expensive, colored, and scented candles burn at higher temperatures.

Low temperature candles are available specifically for wax play.

Be mindful of any allergies. Soy candles are common, and soy is an allergen to some. Also, the scents and colors in some candles can irritate some people. For best results, use a white, unscented Paraffin candle.

Read up on burn safety before playing.

Supplies

Mineral oil/baby oil: This makes clean-up a lot easier if you rub it on the receiver before dripping wax onto them.

Cool, damp washcloth: If the wax burns too much, a cool cloth can sooth the burn quickly and calm the bottom party.

Small bucket of water: With any fire play, it’s really best to have a way to put out any accidental fires. While unlikely, it doesn’t hurt to be safe. 

Hard surface: A lot of people do wax play on their beds, but be sure to have a table or hard, flat surface nearby to put the candle down in the case where the bottom party needs emergency assistance.

Cheap sheet or tarp: Depending on the level of play, it might be a good idea to put something down under the receiver before dripping wax all over your nice sheets or carpet, etc.

I hope this helps anyone looking into wax play. Stay safe and have fun!

xx SF

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jimmah1:

A beautiful moment of understanding…

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jimmah1:

A beautiful moment of understanding…

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