A slave's little instruction book

A slave's little instruction book Well here it is something straight and to the point to help submissives learn and grow. No long posts here just little tidbits of advice to impress and show off for your master.


This was originaly a training tool I made and after almost loosing it to a crash I decided to share the whole thing here. Hopefully this will grow larger and broader than my own mind. I have currently 115 ideas.

I am not taking any credit for 99% of what is here. I only wish to share what I have found and come up with.
If you think I missed something submit it. If you have anything to add to the list submit it. I have been working on this for over a year and it only took me a couple days to get this far.

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arkhamsmaddness:

I would suggest seeing if he can perhaps see the following on the different sorts of spankings…many people are not aware of the difference sorts of spankings and reasons for them. Communication is truly the key.

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black-sapiosexual:

Whichever one you are that day, you’re still his.

ddlg-playground:

submissivefeminist:
Wax Play Tips
Before beginning wax play, be sure all parties agree on a safeword.
Most candles burn from 120-140 degrees Fahrenheit. Keeping the candle at a distance from the receiver’s body will help cool the wax before it touches them.
Harder, more expensive, colored, and scented candles burn at higher temperatures.
Low temperature candles are available specifically for wax play.
Be mindful of any allergies. Soy candles are common, and soy is an allergen to some. Also, the scents and colors in some candles can irritate some people. For best results, use a white, unscented Paraffin candle.
Read up on burn safety before playing.
Supplies
Mineral oil/baby oil: This makes clean-up a lot easier if you rub it on the receiver before dripping wax onto them.
Cool, damp washcloth: If the wax burns too much, a cool cloth can sooth the burn quickly and calm the bottom party.
Small bucket of water: With any fire play, it’s really best to have a way to put out any accidental fires. While unlikely, it doesn’t hurt to be safe. 
Hard surface: A lot of people do wax play on their beds, but be sure to have a table or hard, flat surface nearby to put the candle down in the case where the bottom party needs emergency assistance.
Cheap sheet or tarp: Depending on the level of play, it might be a good idea to put something down under the receiver before dripping wax all over your nice sheets or carpet, etc.
I hope this helps anyone looking into wax play. Stay safe and have fun!
xx SF

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ddlg-playground:

submissivefeminist:

Wax Play Tips

Before beginning wax play, be sure all parties agree on a safeword.

Most candles burn from 120-140 degrees Fahrenheit. Keeping the candle at a distance from the receiver’s body will help cool the wax before it touches them.

Harder, more expensive, colored, and scented candles burn at higher temperatures.

Low temperature candles are available specifically for wax play.

Be mindful of any allergies. Soy candles are common, and soy is an allergen to some. Also, the scents and colors in some candles can irritate some people. For best results, use a white, unscented Paraffin candle.

Read up on burn safety before playing.

Supplies

Mineral oil/baby oil: This makes clean-up a lot easier if you rub it on the receiver before dripping wax onto them.

Cool, damp washcloth: If the wax burns too much, a cool cloth can sooth the burn quickly and calm the bottom party.

Small bucket of water: With any fire play, it’s really best to have a way to put out any accidental fires. While unlikely, it doesn’t hurt to be safe. 

Hard surface: A lot of people do wax play on their beds, but be sure to have a table or hard, flat surface nearby to put the candle down in the case where the bottom party needs emergency assistance.

Cheap sheet or tarp: Depending on the level of play, it might be a good idea to put something down under the receiver before dripping wax all over your nice sheets or carpet, etc.

I hope this helps anyone looking into wax play. Stay safe and have fun!

xx SF

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jimmah1:

A beautiful moment of understanding…

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jimmah1:

A beautiful moment of understanding…

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picmanbdsm:

When the day comes when you accept who and what you truly are..beauty, happiness, and peace enter your life. 

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picmanbdsm:

When the day comes when you accept who and what you truly are..beauty, happiness, and peace enter your life. 

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leatherdaddykate:

Noted xxx

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legsandassobsessed:

I’m into kink, but careful to condone pictures of it without writ of release indicating that it is not against will. No can mean yes - as long as you set up a safe-word. ;)